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40 conversation starters for talking to strangers

The first ten seconds of a call with a stranger are the hardest. Keep a few of these in your pocket and you will never be stuck with “so… hi”.

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Easy openers

  • What are you up to right now, apart from talking to a random stranger?
  • Is it day or night where you are?
  • What made you open BlindTalk today?
  • What’s the best thing that happened to you this week?
  • Coffee, tea, or something else entirely?
  • What are you listening to lately?
  • Are you a morning person or a night owl?
  • What’s something small that made you smile today?
  • If you could teleport anywhere for one hour, where would you go?
  • What’s your go-to comfort food?

Fun and light

  • What’s a skill you have that would surprise people?
  • Which movie could you watch ten times?
  • What’s the most useless talent you have?
  • If your life had a theme song, what would it be?
  • What’s the weirdest food you actually like?
  • Cricket, football, or “I don’t watch sports”?
  • What’s a hobby you’ve always wanted to try?
  • Best and worst trend of this year?
  • What would you do with a completely free day tomorrow?
  • Which fictional character would you want as a best friend?

A bit deeper

  • What’s something you changed your mind about recently?
  • What are you looking forward to this year?
  • What’s the best advice anyone ever gave you?
  • What’s something you’re proud of that nobody notices?
  • If you could tell your younger self one thing, what would it be?
  • What does a perfect weekend look like for you?
  • What’s a place that feels like home to you?
  • Who inspires you, and why?
  • What’s a question you wish people asked you more?
  • What would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail?

Keep it going

  • Ask “why?” or “how did that happen?” — follow-up questions beat new topics.
  • Share a small story of your own so it doesn’t feel like an interview.
  • Notice something they said earlier and come back to it.
  • Laugh at awkward silences; everyone has them.
  • If you’re practising a language, say so — people love to help.
  • Ask for a recommendation: a song, a show, a book, a dish.
  • Play a quick game: two truths and a lie, or would-you-rather.
  • Swap “unpopular opinions” (keep them friendly).
  • Ask what they’d like to talk about.
  • End warmly: “This was fun — thanks for the chat!”

More from BlindTalk: Practice English speaking, how to stay safe talking to strangers, random voice chat or talk to strangers online.

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Ask about opinions, interests and experiences — not identifying details like their name, school, workplace or location.

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